No, you haven’t hit upon a porn site. Just wondering why Christians won’t talk about sex or have a hard time talking about it? We don’t talk about “sex” in the home. We don’t talk about “sex” at church. Parents aren’t even talking to their kids about sex. But they’re hearing about it somewhere. And those somewheres are the wrong wheres. There talking about it at school. They’re talking about it on T.V. There talking about it on the Internet. Then we wonder why girls are pregnant at 13. Kids grow up hearing “just say no”. That’s not the answer cause they are “just saying yes”. You take anything and make it taboo, hush-hush, forbidden and that’s exactly what we’ll want to do. It’s called the flesh. God has given us this beautiful way to express our love to each other (His design is a man married to a woman). Not only for procreation but also for our pleasure. And the only discussion we want to have (if you want to call it a discussion) is just say no, or wait until your married. These things are true but its not what they want to hear. I truly believe with all my heart that we should be talking about sex. Big Sex! Rev. Ed Young did a sermon on Big sex. He was talking about how the world wants us to have sex. They sell sex. They glamorize it. You see it everywhere. Little sex here, little sex there, little sex with this one, little sex with that one. And what has it got us? No where! People are empty, lonely and trying to fill a void. But our God wants us to have big sex. He designed it so perfectly. If our kids grew up in homes with a mom and dad that loved the Lord and loved each other and openly talked about God’s plan for sex, I believe it would make a huge difference. Do they just hear you say you love your spouse or do they see you love your spouse? Do they see the devotion and respect you have for one another? Or do they see disrespect and unhappiness? Do they see a playful pat on the behind or do they see a slap across the face? Do they hear loving edifying words or do they hear nasty hurtful words? Are they seeing something they want for their life in you or they seeing what they don’t want for their life in you. Our kids are watching, they are listening. It’s almost as if we’re the commercial they’re watching. Do they want to buy what we’re selling? We should be telling them that God has the most amazing plan for their lives and they should never settle for anything less. Our words and actions should be louder than the worlds.
Tags: big, church, ed young, just say no, procreation, sex, talk
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